This is a touchy and delicate issue for many people for a variety of obvious reason. However, delicate or not it is certainly a subject that is in need of immmense attention if you are a parent that has children. It is also of tremendous importance for some house holds as the danger lies not only for the parent regarding the children but also because the porn is causing major havoc and detruction to countless relationships and breaking good marriages.
I have laughed and almost cried at times when I here some of the so called professionals in sex therapy and psycho babble purport that using pornographical material is or can be stimulating and help to save a marriage. I don’t see how a husband and wife watching porn together somehow creates a sexual relationship. What is really happening is that one or the other of the two are arroused by it and then when it comes time for intimacy one, the other, or both fantasize about what they viewed in the film and pretend that their partner is the person in the film. Now people can be in denial about this but it is the cold hard truth.
Frightening Facts
But lets take a look at an even more alarming set of facts regarding our children and pornography.
Fact 1. one in five children or teenagers between the ages of 10 to 17 have received some type of sexual solicitation over the internet.
Fact 2. one in four children are exposed to unwanted sexual
advances over the inernet.
Fact 3. two and a half (2.5) billion emails are sent out daily that are related to porn. The is enough email to send porn type invitations or materials to 41.7% of Earth’s entire population. That’s nearing a level of possible exposure to almost 1 out
of every 2 people on the planet. That figure is staggering and only goes to show the seriousness of the situation.
Fact 4. 75% of all sexual advances to minors under the age of 18 were made to them while they were on their own computer. Fact 5. Spouces that
have a significant other that is known to view pornographic material said they feel insecure, unwanted, and very emotionally burdened by the viewing of pornographic material by their significant other.
Fact 5. The number of Christians that view pornography is almost the same at the secular
world.
Maybe the porn problem hasn’t reached your home yet. Or maybe it has an you just aren’t aware of it yet. But God forbid that pornography makes its way into the eyes of one or more of children. But even more alarming and more troubling would be if one of these
pedophiles or online sexual predator’s that deliberately and maliciously seek out children and teenage boys and girls somehow manages to make their way onto your childs computer and has the opportunity to begin weaving their webs of destruction toward your child.
The truth is that you would never forgive yourself for not taking the time to prevent it. The problem all over the world with people today is that they are reactive and proactive. We get flu vaccinations to prevent ourselves from getting the flu. We install fire detectors to alarm us of smoke (which is usually a sign of a fire). We get alarm systems for our homes for home protection against fires, sudden urgent medical problems that require emergency medical attention, and to prevent or deter a break in. We get elaborate car alarms, and all kinds of different things available to us in order to deter or prevent something
harmful or life threatening from happening to us.
I guess you could view this as a little fire prevention because that is exactly what it is in no uncertain terms. This software was two years in the making becuase the designer, even after having porn filters in place, still found his teenage son watching internet porn.
At that time he became, as I am sure any parent would, deeply committed to creating and designing a full proof softare system that would absolutely prevent any type of pornographic (ANYTHING) from making its way onto any computer in the home. And it also has features that prevent other types of negative influences to reach the eyes and ears of your Child and/or Children.
Here is your chance to prevent what I call the 3 P’s from making their way into your home. The 3 P’s are pornographic material, pedophiles, and predator’s. Here are two phrases that should also come to mind. “When the cat’s away the mice will play,” and “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” This is one potential disaster that can be completely eliminated for a few bucks and a few minutes of your
time.